Women Who Minister

Yesterday I attended the #SheLeads Conference held at the First Church of the Nazarene in Pasadena (or PazNaz). Two of my Theology teachers were attending who have had a tremendous influence on me so I decided to go.

One professor is Dr. Kara Lyons-Pardue. She is in her mid-30s and reads Greek as a first language. She received her PhD from Princeton and I have to say she is nothing short of kind, welcoming and the most non-judgmental person I have ever met. I remember my first day of class as a Master of Ministry student scared to death to be a woman learning with men (some of them pastors). My fundamental church background taught me well about a woman’s place and this step of attending school challenged me greatly. On the first day of class, I was shocked when female Professor Lyons-Pardue walks into the classroom with her belly beautifully 8 months pregnant. Not only was her belly adorable but her confidence and intelligence seemed to lift me right above my fears of advanced learning with religious men. I still remember many of her sentences and she still remembers me crying in class as I described a horrific, painful experience from a pastor in North San Diego County.

In time, I then met Dr. Rebecca Laird. She was the first woman I had met who was an ordained minister in addition to a Theology Professor. Rebecca changed my life by her counsel, her confidence and her experience. She looked at me and said something to the effect of, “The church world is like a big ocean. You need to learn where you fit in the ocean. You are a woman evangelist and you’re presently trying to swim in cement.”

Through the years of learning at Point Loma Nazarene University and now at Nazarene Theological Seminary, I have lost the chip on my shoulder. I don’t need to defend the gifts and callings God has given me. The education has allowed me and my female peers to grow and thrive without apologizing.

Well, I say all that to talk about yesterday’s #SheLeads Conference. It was the first time I sat in a room with female senior pastors, a female president of a Theology School and so many young female college students pursuing a career in ministry. Amazing! Could it be that we are entering a time of androgyny—a world without gender limits? Could it be that the Pentecost Anointing to both men and women is now being released? Could it be that God who pours out His Spirit on both young men and women is now opening up the flood gates to bring women into true leadership and ministerial roles? I kept thinking of Acts 10 with Cornelius’ family being anointed in the Holy Spirit by Peter. It took time for the Jewish-Christians to accept Gentiles becoming Christians but in God’s timing and in His way, the Church embraced the goodness of God to extend salvation to all.

As a woman who ministers  (Daily Disciples) and as a woman chaplain ministering, I can say there are a few things about women ministers that we all have in common:

  1. We have no doubt that we are called by God and we have a firm conviction to be faithful to Him.
  2. Our first desire is to please God, despite the words and opinions of others.
  3. We do not want to be men. God made us as women and we are happily female.
  4. We are being obedient to God, not rebellious to the church culture.
  5. If we have children, we love and care deeply for them. God did not have us choose between our children and His will. It was His will for us to have children within His calling. As a result, God works with us and through us to mother our children.
  6. Pastors are shepherds. There are both male and female shepherds in the Bible. The body of Christ is not complete without having both male and female pastors.
  7. We needed to learn how to wrestle the demons back to hell while living in the wilderness to fulfill our calling with grace and peace. We know that Christianity is the only religion that places women upon an equal platform with men, as initiated by Jesus Christ.

Yesterday’s #SheLeads Conference is summed up best by a testimony I read in Phoebe Palmer’s book, “Promise of the Father” written in 1859:

“Soon after this another preacher came to…desire I would give over speaking and praying in public, to which I replied, ‘I will, if you will answer for me at the day of judgment for the one talent God hath given me;’ but he went away saying, ‘That I cannot do.” And she responded, “I counted the cost, but concluded to obey God rather than man. I valued the having my name among God’s people, but I thought more highly of its being enrolled in the book of life.”

For women who minister and women ministers, we stand before God alone someday and we will give an account for the gifts and calling He placed upon us on this earth. Isn’t it time to stop asking God why He called you and to start asking God how to fulfill His call for you? Let’s step out together and turn the world upside down for Jesus Christ. Let’s continue to bear fruit for His glory. Let’s continue to pray that someday we may hear from Him, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

And pray for me…Bobbye has asked me frequently to teach women how to teach the Bible and how to be leaders and speakers. I believe it’s time to start organizing a conference to embolden and encourage my sisters to be about our Father’s business! If interested, let me know.img_0958

–TL Adamson




Forever Faithful

While reading Numbers 11-14, I started getting a glimpse of the trouble Moses encountered. The people complaints were endless, including Moses’ brother and sister. They complained about everything from their food choices to their God appointed leader. They were only united in being divided against the goodness of God. They didn’t appreciate what they had. There was no thankfulness or gratefulness.

There are two things I want from my children: to be treated with respect and to be thankful for what has been provided for them. They can complain, voice their opinions openly and disagree with the rules but I expect them to be respectful in the process. Thankfulness is different. When we are asking for more or better or different for tomorrow, we can end up having a bad attitude about what is good, right and stable today. Those every day foundational securities are necessary to build upon in order to have bigger and better. It’s not good when life becomes about what we do not have instead of what we do have.

The verse in Romans 1:21 says, “For although they knew God, they neither glorified Him as God nor gave thanks to Him.” The verse continues to say that their thinking became futile and their hearts were darkened. Next thing you know, we exchange all the things in our life that represent the goodness and grace of God for things that are meaningless, useless and temporal. We are then stuck with living with our miserable selves and find ourselves trapped  in our own negative thinking, without any hope.

The Israelites lost a lot considering that they were on the right path of gaining it all.  We sacrifice the abundance of eternity by worshiping on the self serving altar of inappropriately accessing what we think is best immediately. The Israelites were not wrong in their assessment of the promise land. They were wrong in the attitudes of their hearts. They could have said, “We are like grasshopper compared to them. I don’t know how we are going to do it. It seems impossible. God must have a plan.” Instead, they were not respectful in how they represented God in their words or thankful in what He had already provided and promised.  Faith was forfeited and failure was the final result.

It is evident from the scriptures that God has blessed us and God has given to us. So it should also be apparent that God’s nature is to continue to do those very things. Are there tests and character building trials along the way? Absolutely.  But we can trust Him. His arm is not too short to save nor His ear too dull to hear. To be respectful and thankful are good keys to keep our attitudes in line.   I want to receive all that the Lord has for me on earth as it is in heaven. I want Him to be able to trust me with the good things and perfect gifts. I have all I need because I have Jesus but my prayers do not stop asking for my wants. I want temporal blessings that give me eternal treasures. I want to make a difference here and have that count up there. Let’s continue to keep our eyes on the Lord and our hearts sensitive in knowing that God ease drops on our thoughts and conversations.  Let’s be faithful to run the race and finish with hearing the words, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”